Tuesday, November 29, 2011
The NICEST Thing Happened...A Word Problem
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| birthday card circa 1978 |
The incest thing happened...
The incest thing did not happen...
The nicest thing did not happen...
Monday, November 28, 2011
Do Something This Christmas
My washing machine is saying:
Something Something Something Something
I've never heard that before
My current motto is:
Do Something
So, I dropped Sunny at school
I drove to the gym and exercised
I drove home sweaty and sang along with the rock and roll
I took a hot bath and used the exfoliating facewash
I dried my very long hair with cool ionized air
I started a load of non-separated laundry
I'm listening to solo John Lennon really loud
I'm filling the sink with soapy dish water
I'm wearing an apron that looks like Santa's suit
When I'm done with my work
I will still want to climb to the roof
And stand up by the chimney
I will start to proudly proclaim
My laughter ringing off the neighbor's
Dark windows
My family's dirty secrets
Something Something Something Something
I've never heard that before
My current motto is:
Do Something
So, I dropped Sunny at school
I drove to the gym and exercised
I drove home sweaty and sang along with the rock and roll
I took a hot bath and used the exfoliating facewash
I dried my very long hair with cool ionized air
I started a load of non-separated laundry
I'm listening to solo John Lennon really loud
I'm filling the sink with soapy dish water
I'm wearing an apron that looks like Santa's suit
When I'm done with my work
I will still want to climb to the roof
And stand up by the chimney
I will start to proudly proclaim
My laughter ringing off the neighbor's
Dark windows
My family's dirty secrets
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
More Living Toys and Less Sex Abuse
Let's pause, shall we, and cut down a little on the manic sexual abuse recovery and go back to toys that come to life (under Sunny's steady hand and camera) to see
FLUFFY'S BIG ADVENTURE
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Sex Therapy with Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Excerpt from Sex Therapist Wendy Maltz, M.S.W.
Upon further exploration I discovered that those clients had one major factor in common: a history of childhood sexual abuse.
Besides how they reacted to standard techniques, I noticed other differences between my survivor and nonsurvivor clients. Many survivors seemed ambivalent or neutral about the sexual problems they were experiencing. Gone was the usual sense of frustration that could fuel a client's motivation to change. Survivors often entered counseling because of a partner's frustration with the sexual problems, and they seemed more disturbed by the consequences of sexual problems than by their existence.
READ THE WHOLE ARTICLE HERE
Upon further exploration I discovered that those clients had one major factor in common: a history of childhood sexual abuse.
Besides how they reacted to standard techniques, I noticed other differences between my survivor and nonsurvivor clients. Many survivors seemed ambivalent or neutral about the sexual problems they were experiencing. Gone was the usual sense of frustration that could fuel a client's motivation to change. Survivors often entered counseling because of a partner's frustration with the sexual problems, and they seemed more disturbed by the consequences of sexual problems than by their existence.
READ THE WHOLE ARTICLE HERE
Monday, November 21, 2011
Friday, November 18, 2011
Her Toys Are On The Move -- Stop-Motion by Sunny
VANESSA STARTS HER ADVENTURE...
This was constructed from more than 200 photos Sunny posed and took herself. I'd love to splice all of them into a Gumby-type short film. It's very surreal and funny. And strangely serious. She does a lot of close up shots of the doll's feet and hands that are intriguing.
Monday, November 14, 2011
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
I Get Around like a Black Rhino
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| Here I'm going to the grocery store |
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| I panicked in front of all those kinds of flour. Bleached or unbleached? Is the $9 bag better than the $3 bag? Did slaves grind the $3 bag? I came back with no flour. |
Sunday, November 6, 2011
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